Josh’s<\/a> laptop. They didn’t find Josh’s wallet or passport. Our snowboards and skis were safe under the bed. It was a loss, but not a complete loss.<\/p>\nThe truth is, I always knew something like this would happen in my travels. I didn’t expect it to be so drastic, but I expected it. I couldn’t believe I returned home from Europe with nothing stolen. I guess it was just waiting to happen a little later.<\/p>\n
Since the robbery, the days have been hard. The healing process isn’t an easy one, as some of the only items I had that were worth something are now gone. And there were some absolutely worthless things that only meant something to me, that are also gone.<\/p>\n
I sit here in Starbucks on a rainy day in Las Cruces, New Mexico. It’s been 5 days since it all happened.\u00a0I’ve lost some things, but I haven’t lost my urge to keep exploring. I will continue to live and adventure in the van. Two days ago\u00a0we climbed to the highest peak in Texas. Because when they go low, I go high.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n
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Here’s the moral to the story:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\nIf you decide to travel the world, bad things might happen. But that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t travel. If I let the two horrible people who took my beloved belongings define my future I would miss out on the thousands of good people who still stand ahead on my path.<\/p>\n
There have been many times I’ve cried on the road. A lot of people tell me I’m fearless when the truth is I probably fear more than most. I just don’t let the fear define who I am and what I’ll do.<\/p>\n
I’ll keep traveling. I might get robbed again, I might not. I might win the lottery, I might not. Life is just a game\u00a0of roulette. But I am going to make sure I play the game, and not watch others play it in front of me.<\/p>\n
Take chances, because chance is about all we got.<\/p>\n
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So here’s to the thieves:<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\nThank you for the reality check. Thank you for being pathetic. Because your pathetic-ness has reminded me how great my life is. Instead of taking the hand I was dealt and living with it, I decided to live a life not even I expected for myself.<\/p>\n
I’ve been on your side of life. You have absolutely nothing, and it sucks. Each day you wait for your luck to change. You’re probably a little too familiar with the cops in your neighborhood and there’s probably a few of your close friends or family behind bars. I’m sure drugs and alcohol are a factor to your behavior. There seems to be no escape from the walls around San Antonio, so instead, you take from people you think won’t miss\u00a0a couple of things\u00a0because they have more than you have.<\/p>\n
All I can hope is that you read my blog now and again because I know you have every piece of information about me, which is scary. My business cards were in my wallet too, so I know you have my website. I hope that you know that I was just not another one of your victims, but instead realize that you are the victim. A victim of a cruddy dealt hand. Whether its addiction, wealth, family or mental disorders, you have it worse than I do. Don’t get me wrong, I hate you<\/em>, but I hope you realize that taking peoples possessions don’t benefit\u00a0either of you. It continues you down a path of hopelessness and leaves them heartbroken.<\/p>\nYou chose the wrong path in life, but I can’t help but hope that you will realize it is never too late to change your path and re-deal your hand.<\/p>\n
I’ll help you start:<\/p>\n
Step one: stop being a dick.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n
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