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Deep, somewhere inside of me there are raging neurons that only come alive when I’m heading into the abyss of something new, something exciting. I patiently save a wait until I set my mind on an adventure that I suddenly can’t keep my mind off. My mind races at a million miles an hour and my patience shortly runs out, to the point where I question grabbing my bag a leaving at that very moment only to realize I would get stranded half way there because I’m not a trust fund baby and have yet to win the lottery. Damn.<\/p>\n My mind is always in at least 5 different countries and 10 different cities.<\/p>\n “I want to go here next, NO WAIT, definitely here next! Wait how much would both be? Nope. Okay……OMG WHAT ABOUT HERE”<\/p>\n A small glimpse of a day in the mind of Shalee.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n As much as I constantly dream and hate that I dream more than I can do, I wouldn’t change it for the world. I’d rather over dream than under dream. But then when a dream turns into a plan, the plan turns into an actual trip and trip actually happens it is complete bliss. That moment I actually realize that something that was a dream is actually real, that I really made it happen, it makes all the stressful ‘will I have enough money?’ and ‘I hate feeling broke all the time’ moods worth it. Getting on a plane for me is the equivalent of walking the red carpet for a celebrity. I feel accomplished and that all my hard work has finally paid off.<\/p>\n Being from a small town in Michigan I never knew how diverse and absolutely awesome the world could be. Growing up I was always immensely curious of the world. I think my parents always knew it was in me. The good thing about that is their never surprised with whatever crazy adventure I plan next. However, wanderlust is a passion that separates me from my other love; my family. It’s something that kills me when I think of leaving for long-term, but I know they would hate to be the reason I held back from my dreams.<\/p>\n This kind of soul is heartbreaking, yet rewarding because I am lucky enough to go after what I believe in but at an opportunity cost of not being around the ones I love.<\/p>\n The thing that constantly keeps me going is guts. Not so much bravery–show me a spider and I will cry, but the strength to be different than 99% of the rest of the world. Sometimes I feel like I’m doing life wrong because I’m not even remotely close to being ready to settle down. Then I realize that more people than I think want to travel and see the world, but feel like they can’t. Knowing that hurts me. Everyone should go after their dreams. That’s one of the main reasons I started this blog, to show others that they aren’t doing life wrong if they choose a route like this.<\/p>\n If you love travel as much as I do, you know how hard it is to spend money on anything. Every time I buy a $5 coffee I regret it about fifteen minutes later. Going out and having to spend $50 on a new pair of work pants because one of the only three I have finally took a poop is the worst feeling. Absolute worst. I recently bought a Gopro and don’t get me wrong it’s the coolest purchase I have made in a long time, but forking out the money sucked. I mean that would’ve been a plane ticket or a week in a hostel. Every purchase hurts.<\/p>\n But then again I can’t just sit around in the time between saving up for a trip. I need<\/em> to be doing something. That’s where my\u00a0close to home\u00a0wanderlust comes in. Weekend beach\u00a0trips,\u00a0snowboarding,\u00a0best friend road trips, cliff jumping, hiking, basically anything that gets me out of the house\u00a0without having to\u00a0empty my pockets.<\/p>\n What continuously brings me to travel is the people, the experiences and the cultures. I’m always waiting to walk down a city street that I’ve never seen before and turn the corner to a caf\u00e9 where I can eat breakfast and have a fascinating conversation with\u00a0a waitress I may never see again. I love sitting next to another traveler, here their stories and find out why they are here and what they plan on doing next. Sit me down and tell me your life story and what inspires you, I’d love to listen over a warm cappuccino.<\/p>\n I’m a storyteller, but I also love to be the listener.<\/p>\n Opening up your ears, you learn a lot about the world. You learn what a country is really like and what the people are really like. You’d be surprised to learn that a majority of the French do not hate Americans and that people from Iraq are extremely kind. It lets you learn that what we see on the moving screen while sitting on our butts in the living room is complete bullcrap. They report to sell, not to truly inform. Wanderlust and experiences let you know that the world is good.<\/p>\n Sure, bad things happen and it’s terrible that they do, however you can’t let the fear of it happening hold you back from something you really want to do. If you live your whole life in your house listening to CNN your going to die unhappy and scared and I think we all can agree those are the worst feelings in the world. Don’t let the storm make you wait for the sun, just\u00a0run into the rain and you’ll see it doesn’t burn.<\/p>\n Traveling to Egypt to see the pyramids is a lot safer than half the cities in the United States. Yet Americans seem to be the ones who are the biggest skeptics.<\/p>\n So to all you Nervous Nelly’s reading this thinking I’m going to get kidnapped, get your panties out of a bunch and realize when I talk about meeting new people I don’t mean I’m going to meet someone who will end up inviting me back to their apartment that’s down a back ally to ‘talk’ and I’ll go and you’ll see me on another negative CNN broadcast about a girl abroad who goes missing. That’s stupid.<\/p>\n Being smart yet cautious gets you a long way in traveling. Trust you instincts, you can’t always prevent bad things from happening, but don’t be\u00a0an idiot\u00a0and you have a better chance of survival.<\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n
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